something i'm inspired to blog about!
i was blog hopping and happened to read 2 blogs in a new relationship and seems very joyous and very lovey lovey.
as in, 'he is the one who appreciates me the most, i love him so much' etc etc.
i mean its not wrong that you experience such kind of lovey lovey feelings la. but the thing is, after 2 months, 4 months, 1 year, will you still blog like that like you did at the beginning of the relationship?
how many people will?
from the start, you feel the very honey moon periods then when you are together longer, you start to see problems, your 'appreciate me the most' statements gets lesser and lesser, which you will slowly realise.
the beginning is always very sweet, going to anywhere and everywhere, do anything and everything.
then after that leh? can you always maintain this way?
and then i reflect back (you know, favourite pastime is to think a lot, lol), i'm glad my relationship doesn't happen too much this way. as in from an extreme to another.
anyhow, i still feel that, from people's real life experiences, can actually see the cycle of how a typical relationship goes by.
initial sweet 'appreciations' and then slowly, you see, issues coming up.
it is healthy for a couple to argue a little (to know more of both's different thinkings) and to be happily together. so its the matter of balancing it.
but i am glad, it seems like the longer we're together, the honeymoon period only started very later on and the relationship like getting better also.
must be the ord date getting nearer that makes him a happier man. alright, i assumed it.
i think what matter most is not the honeymoon period duration, but if everyday so happy, why do i need a specific honeymoon period?
no need!
lousy entry because i am just taking a break from not so progressive studying.
AUCTION MAN IS BACK IN CWP'S PASAR MALAM.
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